There’s been many times in the past where I’ve been involved in exchanging emails with a girl on a popular dating site and suddenly she stops responding for no reason!

She stops replying and I don’t hear from her again and I often feel like cancelling my subscription on the dating site.
I’ve spent many, many hours trying to work out why. Why, when everything is going great, having fun and we’re learning about each other, why does she stop emailing me?

Is it something I said? Did she suddenly change her mind? Has she got back with an old boyfriend? Has she met some one else? Has a family tragedy occurred? Do I smell? There’re perhaps a million and one reasons why she stopped emailing me.

At first I took it personal, like a personal insult. But, over a period of time I realised it wasn’t personal, and it was silly to take it personal! There may be many legitimate reasons why she stopped, but she simply decided to stop and I should accept that.

I remember once I emailed a girl 15 TIMES to ask her why she didn’t reply! That was SAD and HUMILIATING! She NEVER replied!

Nowadays, if I don’t get a reply I email them once to remind them and that’s it! If I don’t get a reply, then there are probably many genuine reasons, so I move onto the next girl I like on the dating site. It’s that simple!

I don’t take it personal anymore and nor should you. In fact, there’s a few times when they’ve got back to me at some later date explaining the reason why they couldn’t respond in the first place!

So, don’t take it personal!