The Internet Dating Guide



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Tell us your personal dating stories and we will publish them on this site – The Internet Dating Guide!

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Pat and Jack

Both Pat and Jack had no luck in finding suitable partners in their hometown. But Pat set a goal of finding love by Christmas 2002. She tried the local bingo halls and OAP clubs, but she couldn't find anyone she really liked.

In the meantime, she bought a computer so she could email friends abroad. Within days of surfing the Internet she came across www.1to1.uk.com. After reading some of the dating profiles, she decided to try it.

xmas-tree.jpgBefore the end of the week she received several replies. One, from a person called Jack, seemed very cheeky and funny. She liked his sense of humour so replied to him straight away. After two weeks of exchanging emails they decided to meet.

The met at a local cinema and had a great time together. Jack gave Pat a lift home at the end of the date. To his amazement he found that Pat lived at the bottom of his road!

So it wasn't too before the became an inseparable couple! And Pat had achieved her goal of finding love by Christmas!

Kevin and Linda

Kevin had numerous failed relationships and began to feel depressed at finding a compatible partner. One day while surfing the net he came across www.worlddatingclub.com. He thought he'd "try it for laugh" and not really take it seriously. After spending a few minutes searching the site he spotted a profile of someone called Linda and was 'intrigued' as he says.

After a few minutes thinking about it, he emailed Linda with some brief details about himself. To his surprise he got a reply with a few hours. Over the next week or so the swapped many emails about things they liked and what they didn't like as well. Kevin was surprised at how like-minded they both were. After more emails they exchanged phone numbers. dating-marriage.jpg

The first time they spoke was 'amazing' as Kevin calls it. The excitement and thrill was overwhelming he says. They talked for hours and hours.

Their first date soon followed and was in the capital city of England, London. Interestingly, they hadn't swapped pictures because neither had a scanner or digital camera or access to one so they had to rely on their own personal descriptions, which added to the excitement.

When they finally met they were very nervous. As Kevin says, "we were so shocked at seeing each other, we just didn't know what to say". But the initial shock wore off and they were soon talking and joking with each other. They spent the whole day wondering around London. At the end of the date they both kissed and hugged, and Kevin for the first time in many years felt that he had found not just a partner but a soul mate as well.

Within six months Kevin had proposed to Linda and she willingly accepted. And as Kevin says, "the rest is history"!

As Kevin points out, if wasn't for the dating web site, the likelihood of them meeting would of been very, very small!

Gary and Kate

After Gary's wife died he thought his life was over with very little to look forward to. Year after year he felt more lonely. During 2001/2002 a friend suggested he try searching dating sites on the internet to find some female friends. He was reluctant but curious.

After a few weeks Gary was in contact with two women from www.matchdating.com. Within months he had developed a deep friendship with both women. But one in particular, Kate (nicknamed Malcolm), seemed very keen on him and he enjoyed every moment he spent with her. So it wasn't too long before they both became couple.

Now, as Gary will be the first to admit, his old sparkle is somewhat back, and he looks forward to every day! He believes he would not be as happy as he is today if it wasn't for the dating services available on the Internet!

Amanda and Alan

Amanda had much doubt about using online dating services, and a lack of trust in men following her difficult divorce, so there was no way she expected to find love on the Net!

But she thought to herself it was worth a try, and in particular she chose www.venusdating.com to see if she could find anyone remotely similar to her. Initially, it was a bit of fun and she thought why not!

Within a few days Amanda had sent out 3 emails to other dating members who she thought she was compatible with. She received replies to all of them. However, one in particular from someone called Alan seemed so genuine. Within a few more days they had swapped over 10 emails - some quite long. This soon led to phone calls - they were calling each once or twice per day sharing their daily gossip.

Eventually they agreed to meet. Although they seemed an unlikely couple, with Alan being six foot tall and Amanda five foot, once they met there was no separating them even though the distance between them was hundreds of miles - Alan lived in North Wales while Amanda was from Scotland.

They soon began meeting during the week and weekends and it wasn't too long before they felt themselves falling in love with plans to live together in the near future!

This came all after Amanda's difficult divorce and skepticism of internet dating dating web-sites!

Comments About Our New Dating Blog
"An article on how women should behave around men they would like to date would be useful" W. Tudor, UK
I thought women knew intuitively how to do this, perhaps not! Ok, it's on the list.
"Hey you guys, how about some dating tips for us older generation?" Betty Marlene
No problem! There's a number of articles in the pipeline aimed at 'mature' daters. Check back in a few weeks.
"Hello Dating Guide, can you provide a detailed list of internet dating sites and prices, thanks." John P. UK
Every month we review new sites. But dating site fees vary from site to site and can change perhaps a few times a year... so it's unlikely we will list individual site fees because they may not be accurate!
"Hi, what are the best free dating websites?" Al, Australia
In fact, this is a really difficult question to answer! We struggled the other week to find one high quality dating site that was totally free for both sexes! Perhaps a future article will list some.
"Hello Dating Guide, I'm religious and would like to meet another religious person, where should I start looking?" Kenny, USA
I would use Google to search for religious sites. I know for a fact there's Christian and Jewish sites, and probably many others too.
"Hi, I got into using dating websites a few years ago after feeling a bit lonely. I'm way to old for bars and clubs, so I looked elsewhere for quality people to meet. My experience of dating sites has been very positive, and I've met some great people. I urge anyone in a similar situation to me to give it a go, it's good fun." JJ Scotland
We absolutely agree! It's the most easiest way to meet like-minded people!
"Hello, I've been using dating sites for a few months and really struggle writing good emails, can you help?" Tom, NY, USA
Two of our writers are now creating a joint article about writing interesting and entertaining emails for use on dating site. They will include samples that you can modify to suit your needs.
"Hi 'Dating Crew', I love the new layout. It's easy to find the articles now. It's looks great. But where's all the old articles?" T.L., USA
We are in the middle of changing their format. Some will be discarded and others will be used. It will only take a few weeks to sort out.
"Hmm, not another 'dating article site'. Actually, yours seems quite interesting, but you need more articles!" Julie, Australia
They are on the way! Check back in a week or so.
Moans About Online Dating

Tell us your beefs about online dating and internet dating sites...

"I would like to moan about the size of the men on these sights [you mean sites]. They reckon they are tall, but when you get to meet them they little men! lets have some genunely [genuinely] tall men, with tools they can actually do something with!!" S. Clewer
Hmm! You've obviously met the wrong men! Perhaps your luck might change! Your a demanding girl, eh?
"I'd like to complain about the cost of dating online. It's not cheap for unemployed people. I've tried the free dating sites but they are not much good. Met one person off their once and he looked well dodgy! I think the price should come down. It is too expensive!" Paula
Have you considered getting a job? Dating site fees are likely to fall with growing competition. And competition is growing monthly. A future article will provide some tips on getting the most out of dating sites on a tight budget.
"Hi, I read your Latest Dating News column about 'niche dating sites' and you say at the bottom, 'What about men seeking lap-dancers'. What about women seeking male strippers?" R. France
AdultFriendFinder comes to mind!
"Hi Internet Dating Guide, I've used the services of a few online dating websites, and found that the matchmaking system is to general and vague which has lead to numerous people contacting me without us having anything in common other than being human! Can't they improve it?" K.L. USA
Interesting question. I think in time this is exactly what will happen: members will be matched more specifically and accurately by an AI - artificial intelligence based - system. I've been in your position many times.
"Hi, many of the popular online dating websites don't allow communication via webcam, why is this? Are they slow at catching on to the latest technology?"
In the future, this will certainly happen. At the moment there potential technological and legal issues to be resolved before this becomes widespread.
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